Three steps towards friendship...

The first step to make friends with someone is to make them like you. If they don’t like you in the first place, it is unlikely that they’ll be eager to become your friends. To let someone know that you are genuinely interested in them, simple gestures like a little smile and calling him by his name can lay the basic foundation. To make the other person feel important you need to be a good listener and encourage the other person to talk. Give your honest and sincere opinion but do not overtly criticize or make fun of him or her.


The second step is to develop a mutual consideration between each other. We need to share his or her perspective and for that it is necessary for us to develop an inclination to see things from the other person’s point of view. To become best of friends we must show a genuine concern and consideration for our friend’s desires and opinions.


The third and final step towards friendship is to show unconditional support and encouragement towards your friend. Moreover, we also need to be very clear about our expectations from our friend. If what we expect from the person we want to befriend, matches with what that person can and want to contribute in friendship, the developing friendship between us is assured to flourish, making all of us gratified with mutual emotional bonding.

Specially dedicated to:

My best friends:Jojo and Ching

My secondary close frens:Wei Yan,JIng Ying,Edwin and Edison

My ITB(Malaysia) frends:Tzu tzu,Wen wen,Lai lai,Joon gor,Lee Chin,Pei Err,Teek Hun,Caryn anne,Devika,Yati,Nethiya,Vicky and Narmatha

My ITB(indonesia) frens:Ray ray,Andrew-little boy,Andika and WJ

and my frens who supported me for so long..thanx..love u all..muacksss.You all lighten up my days.^^

playful weekend

I really screwed up my physics paper..out of 5 question i managed to do only 1 or 2 questions.haha.The last question i know how to do but then i go no time,i waste lotz of time in the fourth question.I just hope that i can pass for this paper.i don't really aim for an A.haha.but i got no idea what result i will get.Just forget it,along come the Chemistry..SWT==

This two weeks i can hardly breath,the exam doesn't stop at all.i will be busy until 20th of december.ahha.Err err won for the badminton tournament semifinal,againts an indon girl.She won,obviously.haha.Congrate her.Wen wen come to our kost and stay for 3 days,we reallyu have great time together and watched Ghost Game.Its quite scary,i get scare many times.But i can sleep soundly through the nite.haha.

This weekend pass by very fast because we play and play and play..ahha

I dont need a reason to be happy..

Do I need a reason to be happy?Caryn asked me why im soo damn happy this few days,but i really dont know what is the reason.I just feel happy.At least im not desperate or sad..hahaha.

I really don't know,but im truely happy this few days!^^

Simplyyy

Oh my God,I got my UTS 2..Physics again?!What?This is my weakest subject,i don't know why my brain not good in calculating and resoning problems.But now my calculus not bad,still can cope with it.LOts of exam coming soon,im nervous but in the same time im going back to MALAYSIA,16th of Januray.after 5 months,finally i can go home.A place that is really my home.i miss my mummy,daddy,ann ann and boy boy.I will go home and we celebrtate CNY together.hehe.

Gambateh to all my friends who going to sit for an exam soon....After exam we go out kai kai,and play together la..hehe.^^

Its not fair and square

It is not fair at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What i think

下雨天了，该怎么办？这里老是下雨，我的很混乱可是我还是开不了口，向我的朋友们诉苦。每个人都有他们的问题，多余的问题只会让人心烦。我很想念我的好友们，晴和盈。虽然我有时重覆着一样的问题但是你们从不埋怨的陪我聊到天亮。

我要的不是物质上的享受，更不是肤浅的甜言蜜语，但是我得到的却是这些。我明白没有一个人是完美的，包括我，可是我就得不到一颗真诚的心和我需要的他吗？朋友都说我已经很幸福了，总是很有魅力可以得到男生的青睐，无可否认我很开心，但这并不代表我需要的是这些。我宁可只有一个追求我而我也喜欢他的男生。这样不是更幸福吗？

我不喜欢你因为你眼中只有你自己，你以为你很了不起吗？有时候，女生要的并不是浪漫和感动，是需要彼此有欣赏对方的感觉。没了那种感觉，再多的钻石也打动不了我的心。

爱情不能勉强。。。。。也不能做比较。

Chee Shu Wen's Day

Happy birthday to you,happy birthday to you,happy birthday to Wenwen....This was the song i sang to her,a friend of mine who is easy going,funny and pretty girl from Kelantan.Before i came here,she told me that we will become good classmate and good friend.Now we are quite close to each other.hehe.Am i rite shuwen?29th of November is her birthday,we will celebrate together with those KMB guys(Andika,Andrew,WJ and Ray)


Ray fetched us in front of Sheraton,we have to walk down all the way from our kost to Sheraton,its super duper hot,but kinda lucky,at least we no need to take angkot(kiri-kiri) again.haha.Ray was pretty quiet,he seldom talk and just smile when we asked or talked something stupid.Language was the main problem,but the whole car full of talkative girls,so i think still not that bad.haha.Oh ya,our senior Err Err very beh paiseh,she wanted Ray to go to Tubagus and picked her up.Sweat== realy beh paiseh and cannot tahan her,but senior mah...have to hormat her abit.haha.


We went to PVJ for the birthday celebration,Err err and me went to buy movie tickets and the rest of them(Ray,Tzutzu,Lee chin and Wenwen)went to the restaurant.We choosed The Black Book,it was a Dutch movie,Tzutzu’s idea.We wait and see the movie nice or not.haha.I tot was Pancake Parlour but they wanna eat Duck King.haha.We waited them for so long only we realised they were actually in Duck King,kena boom again.Around 2pm Andika,WJ and Andrew reached the Duck king,and guess what?Andika in purple!!!!!!I guess all of them were shock but we pretend nothing happen.He?in pirple?Wj told me that Andika noe Wenwen like purple colour,but that day our main target was WJ and Tzutzu.The lunch was ok but its bloody expensive.62k rupiah,bloody hell!The duck was expensive,stupid bebek.WEnwen got a cake from Wj,Andika,Andrew and Ray(i will call them F4 later),i think was black forest cake.From Kartika Sari,nice of course!


Black Book..hmm..the movie started of very boring,lee chin was grumbling all the time.But it was bored indeed,Tzutzu idea.Ah ma idea.haha.But the funny part was the 18SX part.Adui,i cannot tahan anymore,so horny that part.I don wanna mention bout it,Lailai,Tzutzu kept laughing,lee chin and me hide beside the beg.Mr lim lagi teruk,he acted so funny and weird.haha.But the F4 seem very chill and Ok with it.That little boy from Jakarta was ok,cool and calm too.Sweat=.= The movie took us 3 hours,damn long.But it was nice,and the climax was truely unpredictable.

Karaoke session..deng,deng,deng...we can listen to F4,but they are not the real F4,i think they are way more better than the Taiwan F4.haha.We have our cake inside the place and sing till our saliva dried already.haha.I exaggerate too much.LOL.WJ good in singing,little boy quite shy but he managed to sing a few songs.but he is good in singing too.haha.Andika,Ray and Mr Lim kinda gay sometimes,they will sing love song together.haha.The best part was,Andika and Mr Lim look exactly like brothers.My God!haha.

Ah..tired....next year we should combine all the birthday...If not i will broke,bangkrup and get crazy.But it was fun,i like to hang out with the KMB guys.Frindship forever ya!!

PS:Wen,that day you truly happy??Dont tell me i need to sing ‘ni bu shi zheng zhen de kuai le’ to you har..haha.Enjoy ur 20th and next year we celebrate together again ya..^^